Nov 9, 2015 15:31
8 yrs ago
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English term

way to not sugarcoat it

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JESSE: You look terrible, Petra. Your skin is, like, almost grey.
PETRA: Hey, way to not sugarcoat it. I feel even worse than I look.

What does she actually mean by this phrase?

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6 mins
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that's a good way to tell the unpleasant truth

As I understand it, "Way to..." like this needs to be understood as "gee, that's a good way (not!) to..."

we say 'to sugar-coat something" when we mean to make something unpleasant more palatable... initially, perhaps literally with the 'sugar-coated pill' (e.g. to hide the bitter taste of the medication); but it is used a lot figuratively, referring to often superficial means used to get e.g. the public / employees, etc. to accept something they basically won't like.

So I think she is saying "Thanks a lot for making that rather unkindly true observation, as if I didn't already know that I feel and look like sh*t!"

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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:33 GMT)
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As Charles rightly points out, the whole remark is of course ironing: it is NOT a good way to tell Petra she's looking a bit off colour...

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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:51 GMT)
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Freudian slip there: ironic, not 'ironing'!
Peer comment(s):

agree Jean-Claude Gouin : 100% d'accord avec toi, Tony ...
13 mins
Merci, J-C ! :-)
agree Charles Davis : As in "way to go!". I agree with all this, but here "way to" is (in my opinion) being used ironically: kind of "thanks for nothing". (Looking more closely, I suppose that's what you mean by "(not!)", but perhaps wise to spell it out.)
22 mins
Thanks, Charles! Yes, absolutely, I obviously didn't make it as clear as I'd intended.
agree Shera Lyn Parpia
29 mins
Thanks, Shera!
agree Andrew Bramhall
51 mins
Thanks, Oliver!
agree Andrea Shah
52 mins
Thanks, Andrea!
agree Jack Doughty
1 hr
Thanks, Jack!
agree B D Finch
1 hr
Thanks, B! :-)
agree P.L.F. Persio
2 hrs
Thanks, Miss!
agree Yvonne Gallagher
3 hrs
Thanks, G!
agree Mikhail Korolev
1 day 2 hrs
Thanks, KLP!
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "Thanks everybody!!!"
+10
8 mins

That's a blunt way of putting it

She is slightly taken aback by how blunt, straightforward and possibly rude Jesse is in commenting negatively on her appearance
Peer comment(s):

agree Tony M
1 min
agree Shera Lyn Parpia
27 mins
agree P.L.F. Persio
2 hrs
agree Yvonne Gallagher
3 hrs
agree Victoria Britten
5 hrs
agree Denise Leitao
5 hrs
agree Michael Barnett
12 hrs
agree Rachel Braff
19 hrs
agree Mikhail Korolev
1 day 2 hrs
agree acetran
1 day 15 hrs
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-2
14 mins

Way to disguise/avoid tellung the truth

Instead of saying: you look HORRIBLE! The person was diplomatic and perhaps trying to avoid hurting the other person's feelings did the contrary.
Peer comment(s):

disagree Tony M : That's got it the wrong way round: the person was brutally blunt and made no attempt to "disguise the truth"
4 mins
Could be but to sugar coat means to go about it in a round about way avoiding being direct.
disagree Andrew Bramhall : Surely to 'sugarcoat' means to make something bitter and unpleasant taste palatable, like when children need to take pills they rather wouldn't??
42 mins
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