Nov 9, 2015 15:31
8 yrs ago
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English term
way to not sugarcoat it
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JESSE: You look terrible, Petra. Your skin is, like, almost grey.
PETRA: Hey, way to not sugarcoat it. I feel even worse than I look.
What does she actually mean by this phrase?
PETRA: Hey, way to not sugarcoat it. I feel even worse than I look.
What does she actually mean by this phrase?
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that's a good way to tell the unpleasant truth
As I understand it, "Way to..." like this needs to be understood as "gee, that's a good way (not!) to..."
we say 'to sugar-coat something" when we mean to make something unpleasant more palatable... initially, perhaps literally with the 'sugar-coated pill' (e.g. to hide the bitter taste of the medication); but it is used a lot figuratively, referring to often superficial means used to get e.g. the public / employees, etc. to accept something they basically won't like.
So I think she is saying "Thanks a lot for making that rather unkindly true observation, as if I didn't already know that I feel and look like sh*t!"
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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:33 GMT)
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As Charles rightly points out, the whole remark is of course ironing: it is NOT a good way to tell Petra she's looking a bit off colour...
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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:51 GMT)
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Freudian slip there: ironic, not 'ironing'!
we say 'to sugar-coat something" when we mean to make something unpleasant more palatable... initially, perhaps literally with the 'sugar-coated pill' (e.g. to hide the bitter taste of the medication); but it is used a lot figuratively, referring to often superficial means used to get e.g. the public / employees, etc. to accept something they basically won't like.
So I think she is saying "Thanks a lot for making that rather unkindly true observation, as if I didn't already know that I feel and look like sh*t!"
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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:33 GMT)
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As Charles rightly points out, the whole remark is of course ironing: it is NOT a good way to tell Petra she's looking a bit off colour...
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Note added at 2 heures (2015-11-09 17:37:51 GMT)
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Freudian slip there: ironic, not 'ironing'!
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+10
8 mins
That's a blunt way of putting it
She is slightly taken aback by how blunt, straightforward and possibly rude Jesse is in commenting negatively on her appearance
Peer comment(s):
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Tony M
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agree |
Shera Lyn Parpia
27 mins
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agree |
P.L.F. Persio
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agree |
Yvonne Gallagher
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agree |
Victoria Britten
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Denise Leitao
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Michael Barnett
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Rachel Braff
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Mikhail Korolev
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acetran
1 day 15 hrs
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14 mins
Way to disguise/avoid tellung the truth
Instead of saying: you look HORRIBLE! The person was diplomatic and perhaps trying to avoid hurting the other person's feelings did the contrary.
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Tony M
: That's got it the wrong way round: the person was brutally blunt and made no attempt to "disguise the truth"
4 mins
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Could be but to sugar coat means to go about it in a round about way avoiding being direct.
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disagree |
Andrew Bramhall
: Surely to 'sugarcoat' means to make something bitter and unpleasant taste palatable, like when children need to take pills they rather wouldn't??
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