Feb 2, 2006 15:42
18 yrs ago
English term

invitations (see more)

English Art/Literary Poetry & Literature
When Arthur told his mother that he was going to marry Katy, she bit her lip and looked away. “Will you be wanting invitations? Mine were on old parchment with purple ink. I was a very silly girl.”

“I think we’d prefer not to, Mum. If that’s all right.” Arthur looked at Katy who nodded slightly.
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I have, actually, a number of questions about this passage.

1. Do they really mean wedding invitations, that is, cards, inviting somebody to attend the event? If so, why is it so silly to have them on old parchment with purple ink? Does the Mum mean that it was pretentious or what?

2. Does the verb *to want* have its usual meaning here? Its progressive tense confuses me a bit.

3. Does the passage suggest that the Mum is somewhat unhappy with her son's prospective marriage? Is there any hint of this sort?

Thank you very much in advance.
Change log

Feb 2, 2006 15:44: Mikhail Kropotov changed "Field (specific)" from "General / Conversation / Greetings / Letters" to "Poetry & Literature"

Responses

+7
8 mins
Selected

yes, yes, yes

1. Yes, real, physical invitations/cards. Silly probably because sentimental/purple ink may strike her now as being "overdone", but I wouldn't say pretentious. Just things that girls think are a good idea, but later think was just ridiculous.

2. Yes, 'will they want invitations' would work as well. Just her speaking style.

3. The fact that "she bit her lip and looked away" suggests that she is not entirely thrilled with the idea, for whatever reason.
Peer comment(s):

agree oxygen4u : :)
2 mins
Thanks, oxygen4u
agree jccantrell : I agree. I think the "will you be wanting..." entered English usage from Gaelic, so perhaps Arthur and his mother have Irish roots?
7 mins
Thanks, JC
agree Rebecca Barath
2 hrs
Thanks, Rebecca
agree izy
3 hrs
Thanks, izy
agree NancyLynn : yes, the use of the progressive tense had me believing these people are Irish, that plus the name, Katy, and the spelling for Mum (Mom being prevalent in Amer.)
3 hrs
Thanks, Nancy, but my own MOM (all-American) also talks like that : )
agree RHELLER : agree with all three points
7 hrs
Thanks, Rita
agree Alfa Trans (X)
13 hrs
Thanks, Marju
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "I really hesitated which answer to choose, but you were the first. Big thanks, anyway, to all involved, and special thanks to Alexander."
11 mins

invitation

1. Yes they mean wedding invitations. Mum thinks now that her choice of inivtation was silly.
2. will want to have ..
3. mum isn't too happy
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20 mins

Agree with other answerers

+ will you be wanting... means "Will you require invitations to be produced/issued/sent?" -it is used like that to express the other person's expectations "Will you be wnating tea?" = Will you be expecting the possibility of having tea later?
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+4
6 mins

1.Yes; 2. Yes; 3. I believe so

3: ...she bit her lip and looked away

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Note added at 9 mins (2006-02-02 15:51:14 GMT)
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In addition to the lip biting piece: She starts talking logistics right away, sort of "matter-of-fact". No "I am happy for you", no "Congratulations", no sentimental tear in her eye

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Note added at 5 hrs (2006-02-02 21:08:02 GMT)
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About #3: I don't say definite "Yes" there because, unlike you, I don't know the wider context or the particular character (the mother) traits. It's feasible that for some people (with peculiar manners, with emotional problems, etc.) the behaviour would mean that they are ecstatic about the news.
Peer comment(s):

agree oxygen4u : :)
4 mins
Thank you, oxygen4u!
agree Romanian Translator (X)
5 hrs
Thank you, Awana.
agree RHELLER : agree - especially with the "no congrats" - not normal motherly behavior - (ecstatic? aren't you overstating that possibility a bit?)
7 hrs
Just giving it the benefit of a doubt. Thanks, Rita.
agree Seema Ugrankar
7 hrs
Thank you, ugrankar.
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